That's both a great question, and one that has a hard answer! While I'm reluctant to call GC a "cult", I think for some personalities (like me), there is a real attraction to suddenly being in a community that has ALL of the answers. It really took the pandemic for me to have the opportunity to step away (more like the need for me to supervise my younger kids doing online learning, which gave me the space to think, "WTF am I thinking?", and to let the voices of the people I care most about, in.